My CaReLeSs WhIsPeR-Think UNIT TRUST, Think Agnes

This post has been edited due to some unforeseen circumstances. Didn't expect things to turn out sour. But I'm preserving this one paragraph, allow me pls, thanks :)

Jen, I apologize on behalf of my readers who left those hurtful comments. Dun fret, they are not you, not even him, so you can't expect them to be in your shoe and say the things that would sound reasonable to you. I'm not siding anybody here though, pls understand that I posted the blog based on what I feel, and how I see the entire thing, that's it, no offend intended. Jen, everything's gonna be just fine….trust me :)

From the original post :

We know they won't appreciate and thank us, and yet we seem to be so willing to waste our time and effort on them; We're aware that they're treating us like nobody, sometimes like shit, and yet we dun mind doing more things for them ;We know they'll nv stand up for us, and yet we're being so protective of them ; We know they won't be there for us and yet we wanna stand by them ; We know they will have no problem in getting whatever they want in life, and yet we still want to give all the best to them ; We know they can't reciprocate, and yet we dun mind giving still without taking ; We know they won't even care, won't even bother if we're dead or alive, and yet we juz can't forget about them and stop caring ; We know they dun need us, and yet we still hold on to them ; We know others deserve us more, but yet we're not willing to channel our love and concern to these others ; We know they're not treating us any better, but yet we try hard to find excuses to back them up, for all their hurtful actions. Ultimately, what do we get out of all of it? We developed a certain level of hatred in us. We end up hating ourselves for loving someone whom we juz can't stop loving. Why do we get hurt by someone that we love? Why must we feel the pain to love someone? Doesn't make any sense man. Love is not supposed to be that way!

*Whisper of the day : We know we'll get hurt if we don't stop when we should, and yet still we are holding on to it, why? We are becoming more and more like an idiot, and yet we can't stop being one, why? We know we should stop watever we're doing, and yet we are too weak to control ourselves from not doing it, why? Will remain unanswered…until the day when you manage to locate the will power within you, then you'll be able to do so :)

yin ling... i cant belive this, well.. i omost break down in tears when i see this.i don kno wat to say, u hv written all the things that is soo reasonable, it's true, why would we nid to get upset juz because of these kind of guys. don nid to torture ourself just to please them when they don even care abt us!!!  

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QUOTE: "it doesnt matter wat u sacrifice for him....when u have this kinda mindset, i dun think any of ur relationship will ever work out...."

Well, I have smth to comment on this. I dun think Jen mind sacrificing for him. If she minds, definitely she wouldn't have done it.

I think wat she meant was...she feels that she sacrificed for nothing and was JUZ feeling disappointed, that's it! Right Jen?

For me, I dun mind sacrificing either. We did it WILLINGLY. But dun expect us to not feel disappointed though, couldn't help feeling that way coz afterall we're human beings. Which human being won't get disapointed anyway, when all our efforts seems to be washed down the drain? :)  

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